DH - dear husband...the hell?

so during this pregnancy experience, i spend time reading various pregnancy boards. well this chic...wanted to vent about her DH.

Not to long ago I made a post about my dh and how he never wants to spend any time with me. We dated for 3 years (and lived together) and recently got married a month ago after we found out we were expecting our first (unexpected) baby. (pregnant or not, im not doing a shotgun wedding.) But all he ever wants to do is sit around and play video games all day. I mean, all day. (I'm sure after living with him for 3 years, she was aware of how much he played video games.)If I so much as ask him to watch a movie, or do anything that interests me, he moans and groans till he can go play his game. He leaves for the army in 3 weeks, and says he cant wait to get away from my "b*tching". (oh really!?) I know I have been moody so far in my pregnancy, but alot of it was due to the depression over having a child during college, and loosing my family (and basically everything) after I chose to keep our baby. He calls me lazy (which, im not a couch potatoe! I only weigh 108 lbs!) (what does your weight have to do with you being lazy?) and rarely likes to spend time with me, or show me affection. The only time he ever really does is when he needs his sexual "needs" satisfied. He embaresses me infront of his family, and puts our relationship problems out there. It doesn't seem like he is going to miss me at all when he is gone, and I have talked to him about writing letters and calling but he doesnt seem to care much for that. (yea, no thanks shotgun wedding)

The other day we got into a fight and he even spit in my hair! (oh helllll no!)

like, i don't even know where to start. honestly, since he's in the army and by the sounds of it, she doesn't have a job..i'd let his ass go off to war, whatever..have that baby on his benefits and then divorce his ass. like CLEARLY he is disrespectful to her. MAN...these dramatic relationships..i'm too lazy for that ish...raised voices and what not. i honestly feel sorry for the poor kid..who may end up going up in this and seeing this dad spit on his mom. SPIT..like i've only seen ish like that on VH1 trash tv.